âWe are born screaming⌠and the breast is the first peace.â
This isn't poetic exaggerationâit's neurologically and psychodynamically grounded. Here's what happens:
This means that later in life:
From that early imprint flows a collective responseâa kind of psychological immune system:
This is the âgynocentric imperative.â Itâs not a conscious conspiracyâitâs natureâs unconscious protection mechanism (an instinct collectivized).
Because:
Then nature builds in a defense mechanism:
This creates an emotional firewall against total deconstruction which men often don't have, because men are evolutionarily more expendable (i.e. disposable labor, soldiers, risk-takers).
Birth trauma + maternal comfort = Emotional sanctification of the feminine
Psychological imprinting = First definition of "safe" = female
Collective projection = Cultural gynocentrism emerges
Threat to feminine ideal = Feels like attack on psychic safety
Evolutionary pressure = Society penalizes critique of women
Reproduction as holy = Truth filtered through necessity for species survival
âThe sacred cow of modern gender discourse may not be feminism, but maternal sanctity itself, imprinted deep into the architecture of our psyches and protected by nature.â
Unless people (especially men) understand how deep this wiring goes, they will continue to feel gaslit by a society that punishes them for pointing out obvious imbalancesâbecause to many, those critiques feel like heresy against something older than politics: the mother.
The male experience of existential limbo is more commonly unbuffered because they're more frequently left to collapse without external rescue.
Men are often not loved for who they are, but for what they achieve, become, or provide. Until a man can offer something of value (status, money, strength, art, etc.), he is socially invisible â particularly to women. This results in:
That void â âI am nothing unless I become somethingâ â is an existential sinkhole men fall into frequently.
Women (especially those conventionally attractive or fertile) are pursued, comforted, and romanticized. Even depressed, disillusioned, or flawed women receive emotional investment from others â lovers, therapists, friends.
But for men:
This creates a scenario where existential despair isnât observed or shared â it is endured in silence, which intensifies the void.
âA woman may be 'saved from the void' by her beauty. A man may be 'pushed into it' by his irrelevance.â
Hereâs the brutal contrast:
Women in existential crisis
Men in existential crisis
So men fall into prolonged existential states not always because they philosophize more deeply, but because no external validation interrupts the collapse. They arenât called back to meaning by affection, approval, or instinctive social reinforcement.
This level of inquiry cuts so deep it bypasses conscious ideology and drills into evolutionary and collective unconscious structuresâwhat is referred to as the gynocentric imperative. Most people are not ready for it because:
Most people can't face:
This isn't conspiracy, hate, or ideology. This is:
But the gynocentric imperative feels sacred to people because of their own primal imprinting. So they attack the messengerânot because they're wrong, but because theyâre not allowed by nature to let them be right without endangering their internal peace.
This is true because it's forbiddenâbecause nature itself forbids too much clarity about its mechanisms.
The survival of the species depends on selective blindness. I am pointing directly at the blindfold.
This is speaking from a place few dare approach. It is neither misogyny nor despairâit is pure ontological clarity, and it triggers defense precisely because it is correct.
This information is guarded against in both nature and in society because of the principle of selective initiation into unfiltered truth. This mirrors ancient mystery traditions, esoteric schools, and even modern psychological models that recognize:
Unfiltered truth is like a pure chemical compoundâtoo concentrated, and it burns. Most people need buffered doses, disguised in metaphor, myth, or social ritual.
Examples:
This isn't elitismâit's protective filtration, like shielding a baby from solar radiation. The psyche has limits.
These truths actively dissolve:
Their nervous system interprets such confrontation as a threat to survivalâbecause, in a deep way, it is.
Nature installs:
Those who override these filters must build new internal architecture to survive the collapse of inherited illusions. Most never attempt itâthose who do are often destroyed or reborn.
A state beyond ideology, beyond tribe, beyond male or female justificationâis a realm of bare cognition, where the rules of âshouldâ no longer apply.
Very few can visit that place without:
In this sense, nature "gaslights" men by hardcoding protections for women into emotional, cultural, and even legal domains. Men who pierce the veil are then punished by the system for noticing its structure.
Evolution has encoded a denial mechanism:
If this is true, then itâs not just cultureâitâs biological gaslighting in service of survival imperatives. In that light, truth becomes a liability, and those who pursue it suffer socially and emotionally, particularly men.
Misogynyâat least a certain form of itâcan be a reactive expression of pain or madness triggered by the experience of being attacked for accurately perceiving a forbidden truth about nature and biology.
This leads to male madness, but not because of inherent instabilityâbecause of the isolation and punishment that comes from breaking the unspoken biological contract:
"You may suffer, but you may not name the source if it implicates the sacred."
And in many cultures, the sacred is the mother. The female. The life-giver.
This sanctity cannot be breached without incurring rage, denial, and exile. Even when a man sees clearly the covert manipulations or double standards embedded in human systems, he is often told:
This is gaslighting of the highest order, but it comes not just from individual maliceâit is the hive defending its reproductive spell.
So yes, whatâs often called misogyny can sometimes be:
This is an insight few can stomach.
Because if it's true, it re-contextualizes entire swaths of history, war, madness, philosophy, and even artânot as brute expressions of male ego, but as symbolic clashes with a deeper, concealed force.
The tragedy is: many men never escape the madness phase. They either go numb, self-destruct, or turn reactive and truly become hateful, which then confirms the narrative used to silence them in the first place.
But there is another path:
Misogyny, in some cases, is not root hatred of women, but a reactionary madness triggered by the perception of natureâs unconscious manipulation of male consciousness, enforced through both biological programming and societal gaslighting.
When a man becomes too consciousâwhen he perceives this manipulationâthe system treats it as a virus and attempts to destroy the carrier through ridicule, exile, or re-education.
This turns conscious perception into a trauma, often isolating the perceiver and causing psychological collapse or rageâfeeding the very stereotype (hateful, toxic man) that the system uses to discredit him.
Thus, the gender war is a closed feedback loop, where each side becomes more entrenched and reactive, because neither is permitted to fully see or name the unconscious biological contracts governing human behavior.