Primate Penis Theater
Human mating behavior is surrounded by embarrassment because the real mechanics beneath it are biological, instinctive, and resemble primate dynamics more than the refined self-image humans prefer. People engage in signaling, competition, strategic displays, selective openness, and subtle deception to secure mates, but these behaviors contradict the idea of being rational, sovereign beings. Since the biological machinery clashes with the idealized narrative of humanity, it becomes hidden behind romance, morality, and symbolic language. This is why discussions about mating provoke such intensity: they expose parts of the self most people want to keep obscured.
The moment you analyze human courtship without euphemism, what appears is a clear continuity with primate ethology—hierarchies, status contests, reproductive strategy, jealousy circuits, and threat detection. Breakup rage, stalking behavior, jealousy murders, and obsessive “oneitis” look indistinguishable from chimpanzee mate-guarding or baboon consortship interference.
These behaviors are universal, but people avoid acknowledging them because they reveal an “animal layer” beneath cultural identity. That layer is always active, yet never admitted. Naming it disrupts the protective narratives individuals use to maintain a sense of being elevated, ethical, or uniquely self-directed.
Talking openly about these processes triggers shame and defensiveness because it collapses the distance between biological drives and the stories people tell about themselves. If mating instincts govern attachment, attraction, and emotional volatility, then much of what people believe to be purely moral or personal becomes exposed as evolutionary programming. This threatens their sense of autonomy. The discomfort is not about sex itself—it is about being confronted with the underlying animal logic of the species.
This same logic explains dramatic reactions around breakups, obsession, jealousy, or emotional meltdown. These responses are not moral failings but primate mating circuits built to protect pair-bonds, ward off rivals, and secure reproductive opportunities. Yet because these reactions contradict the polished polished social persona, they become sources of shame. People prefer not to recognize that their emotional extremes follow the same patterns observed in other mammals under reproductive stress.
Sex was moralized into “sin” precisely because these unfiltered instincts destabilized early human groups. Raw mating biology produces conflict—violence between males, hyper-selective female choice, jealousy spirals, infidelity risks, and resource-driven mating competition. To prevent collapse, cultures reframed sex as sacred, forbidden, or regulated. Shame and spiritual narratives functioned as behavioral controls, taming instincts that otherwise produced chaos. Hiding sexuality was a way to hide animality—and preserve social order.
When religious frameworks weakened, that behavioral containment dissolved. Modern society is now seeing the biological substrate without the old filters: exposed mating strategies, gender hostility, volatile attachment, and widespread confusion about desire. The myths that once obscured the primate layer are gone, and the species is confronted with the machinery directly.
When men aren’t aware of this, they ask questions like, “What must I do to get a girlfriend? All my conscious talking and sharing of my ‘soul’ seems to have no effect.” The answer is simple: you must engage in primate dominance theater—this is the behavioral language that activates mate-selection circuits in the human female.
If you respond according to the surface romantic narrative and say, “My attempts to demonstrate goodwill and personal merit have no effect,” they will inevitably point to some “other fault” as the reason for not reciprocating. This happens because humans instinctively conceal their animal nature, using whatever means of obfuscation are necessary. They cannot reveal what they have never fully acknowledged in themselves.
If you tell human beings what they are really doing, they will gaslight you into confusion, depression and schizophrenia. Awakened consciousnesses of the past who saw this and spoke of it, were hung upside down at town square, and split from asshole to ear. That's your "divine love and truth."